Do You Believe God is Real?
The "are you kidding me" look came at me from my pastor husband's eyes! After God had just shown up for us in a big way I inquired, "Do you believe God is real!" He simply said, "I am assuming that is a rhetorical question." My statement should have been "No, one can tell me God is not real and aware of our every thought and every need."
After stressing over the best way to approach an issue that needed to be addressed he finally said, "Let's pray our prayers." (The ones from The Power of a Praying Husband/Wife by Stormie Omartian). Rather reluctantly, knowing how God gently disciplines, we grabbed our books.
He read first:
"Lord, I pray that you would bring Boo and me to a new place of unity with one another. Make us be of the same mind. Show me what I need to do in order to make that come about. Give me words that heal, not wound. Fill my heart with Your love so that what overflows through my speech will be words that build up, not tear down. Convict my heart when I don't live Your way. Help me to be the man, husband, and spiritual leader that You want me to be. In Jesus' name I pray."
I yanked the book out of his hand saying, "You made that up." Nope, every word was sent to us from God.
My turn:
"Lord, I lay all my expectations at Your cross. I release my husband from the burden of fulfilling me in areas where I should be looking to You. Help me to accept him the way he is and not to try to change him. I realize that in some ways he may never change, but at the same time, I release him to change in ways I never thought he could.
I leave any changing that needs to be done in Your hands, fully accepting that neither of us is perfect and never will be. Only You, Lord, are perfect, and I look to You to perfect us. May we be 'perfectly joined together in the same mind and in the same judgment' (1 Corinthians 1:10) In Jesus' name I pray."
Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.
The Song
“Lay It Down” Tasha Layton
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yw3KyxJg1LE